Well, my daughter Danielle is, and we are all in an uproar due to the fact that she is engaged to one of them. Please pray for her and us, yes us, as we don't know how to handle this! We were at first furious at her, knowing it was't right, then we felt horrible for her as we see her physically and mentally hurting. We can only tell her it is up to her, but we as future inlaws love Brian, whom she is engaged to. We have all things set up for the wedding, all plans in place. We told her we would go with her decision, but if it were the other young man, we stand to lose thousands of $'s. Although that to us is very upsetting we told her that is not a reason to marry someone, that SHE has to put that all aside and come to her own decision. Any suggestions to help us all out would be absolutely so appreciated. Prayers of course are needed so much.