Dismiss Notice
Hi Guest! Welcome to our forums!. We are glad you joined us. If you aren't a member already, please Sign Up! Today!

My brother needs prayers, please.

Discussion in 'The Safe Harbor' started by blusky558, Jul 31, 2008.

  1. blusky558

    blusky558 Guest

    My 46 yr old brother went into surgery this morning for prostate cancer. That was bad enough. When they were prepping him for the procedure, they found another mass in his abdomen. They said since he was lying down and had lost almost 40 lbs in the months prior to the surgery, it was easier to feel than before. At first they thought it might be an anursym and called in a cardiac surgeon, but it was determined that it wasn't that. He is out of the initial surgery and scheduled for a CT scan later today.

    My mom is doing fine so far, my SIL is a basket case.

    Prayers please for a good outcome.

    Thanks to all.
  2. debowah

    debowah Guest

    So sorry to hear this news. Prayers are being said, already had the candles lit for my MIL, so I will quickly add your brother to my devotions. Please keep us posted, and may the outcome be good.

    MARIPOSA Guest

    Will do!!! I often think that the looooong wait for the tests and lab results is the most nerve wracking part of this whole cancer journey. Once they have diagnosed that other mass they will most certainly pursue the most aggressive form of treatment. My second lump removal thankfully turned out to be simply a benign mass.

    Hugs and many prayers, Mari
  4. Mbandy

    Mbandy Guest

    Prayers are on the way :angel
  5. maw

    maw Guest

    My best wishes are coming your way with prayers.
  6. JacquieP

    JacquieP Guest

    Prayers are on the way from this direction also, for him and for the rest of your family.
  7. ShipMaven

    ShipMaven Guest

    Prayers certainly on their way from Arizona. Please keep us updated
  8. reggae

    reggae Guest

    Prayers for your dear brother.....and all of your family. ((((hugs)))))

    JANPEP Guest

    Prayer's for your entire family are on the way from MN.
  10. Karry

    Karry Guest

    Prayers for a speedy recovery to your DB and fingers crossed that the mass is nothing serious. Please keep us updated. =hug =hug to you, your SIL, your DM and all family.
  11. Cruise cutie

    Cruise cutie Guest

    =hugs Jodee, prayers, and heal thoughts from Mark, and I.. please keep us updated..Joanne
  12. Beryl

    Beryl Guest

    Add my prayers to those that are already being said! =hug=hug=hug
  13. KathyC

    KathyC Guest

    So sorry to hear this; positive thoughts are on the way that this turns out to be something that can be successfully treated.
  14. maw

    maw Guest

    Checked back to see if you have any new information. Prayers will continue.
  15. TexasSue

    TexasSue Guest

    More prayers from here - keep us posted.
  16. blusky558

    blusky558 Guest

    Thanks everyone for the great support.

    I just came from a visit at the hospital, my brother is feeling good (morphine pumps will do that to you), but is optimistic. The Dr. said the pathology on the lymph nodes came back clean, so no radiation therapy for the prostate cancer. YEA! They are considering letting him go home late on Saturday, keeping fingers crossed.

    They are going to wait a couple of weeks for the CT scan, cheaper at the outpatient option than doing it while in the hospital. I guess there is also a spot on his lungs that is also a concern, so they will check that as well. My brother has never been a smoker, and is a postal carrier and youth baseball coach, so he is in fairly good physical condition. We are going to take one day at a time.

    My brother and SIL had been their neighborhood newsaper carriers for the past 6 years. They let their customers know that they had given up their routes as of today to deal with this. There was a stack of get-well cards that arrived at their home, at least 20 at last count, many of them with $ gifts to help defray expenses. People can be so caring! Just like all of you!

    Thanks again, I'll post more as things progress. It's been a stressful week with this, knowing my son is in Afghanistan AND getting the word that my oldest DD will be deployed to Iraq in January. AY YAY YAY!

  17. debowah

    debowah Guest

    Jodee, Thanks for the update. Hope the news will be positive, prayers continuing, for your brother and children. Nice to hear that their neighbors and customers are also being supportive. I am sure that really helps. Hope your brother comes home tomorrow and continues to feel good. Positive thoughts that the needed testing will be accomplished soon and the results will be good. Thanks for keeping us updated.
  18. lady-bug

    lady-bug Guest

    I'm wishing your whole family health and safety and your brother a swift recovery.

    My husband had prostate cancer 2 years ago at the age of 56 and is doing great. Exercise (walking) is the key to a quick recovery after surgery (if the doc okays it).
    A messageboard that I found invaluable before, during, and after prostate surgery is <http://www.healingwell.com/community/default.aspx?f=35>

    I'm hoping the abdominal mass and the spot on the lung is nothing to worry about. Please keep us informed, and share the pathology report.
  19. maw

    maw Guest

    Prayers will be there for you and your family. So often too many things go wrong at once. Try to relax as you can. Wishing for strength for you.
  20. bostongal

    bostongal Guest

    Jodee - Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.


Share This Page