Everyone can enjoy the nice bodies but what worries me is all those men and women who strutt and should be covered up.. They just do not have sense to know how they should be dressed why too many on cruises.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 1/2 years. Fot the first 6-9 months, he was so silly! We'd be watching TV or something and I'd say..."she is so pretty!" or some variation of that. He'd just shake his head and say, "she's no Jenni." Don't get me wrong...I was flattered as all heck but c'mon! I know it's natural to find people attractive.
Now...3 /12 years later, I (very) occasionally catch him appreciating a pretty girl. He tries to be so discreet and it's so funny. So, I'll just elbow him and say something like "HI? You alright over there?" It's almost like a big joke now. It doesn't bother me at all. It did bother me when he tried to pretend that I was the only woman in the whole world who he thought was attractive. That's just not natural! It works both ways....I can google over Johnny Depp or make a double take at a cute guy and it's no biggie for him.
The saying as I know it is: You can look at the menu as long as you eat at home.
It's all about HUMAN NATURE.....I've been very happily married for 14 years, 2 wonderful kids. If me or my hubby ever said we never found ANYone that we ever looked at not attractive, we'd both be lying.
Coffeecups - i am in serious cruise dt's.....and baseball is in full force so i spend 4 nights a week at the ballpark (am loosing my cruzn tan !!! )
and frankly, i don't care who or when my husband looks at someone else. and if he wants that someone else..... well, finding a new husband shouldn't be hard. seriously, its not an issue in our marriage at this point. just treat each other with mutual trust and RESPECT.