We found the same as toto. In fact just for fun dh dressed in Bermuda shorts, polo style shirt, tie, sportcoat, socks and of course tennis shoes. Everyone loved it. The photog was all over him taking pics. He had every intention of going back up to the cabin to change but didn't.
For formal night, I wore a dark business suit with a formal, tux-style shirt.
Nobody even knew the difference.
That previous post about Bermuda shorts sounds great; I'll try it.
Besides, when in Hamilton, I saw two very prosperous businessmen on their way to work, coat, tie, Bermuda shorts, knee socks, the lot.
So I could always claim I was "going native," right?
In Bermuda practically all the businessmen wear shorts, its somewhat like in Hawaii where the bank president, and everyone else, wears an aloha shirt. In fact, we always distrust men in shirt and tie as they are usually lawyers!!!!